Embracing Differences: Everyone Has Something!

Teaching Kids About CMT
Link to presentation:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IdL3GHTlAgA

Yohan was diagnosed with CMT 1A at the age of 7. Neither my husband nor I have CMT, so Yohan’s CMT is the result of a de Novo mutation- the first person with CMT ever in our families. CMT just showed up one day on our doorstep as would a long forgotten relative, needing a place to crash. He crashed alright, and never left, but he’s DNA and we’ve accepted him and make the best of the situation…. most days.

Over the years, I’ve written articles and given presentations about our family’s journey with CMT.  Here’s one from 2006 which is still relevant today:

Embracing Differences

Why does Yohan have funny old man shoes? Why can’t he run fast and climb trees? And what’s up with all the sprained ankles? Why does he get rest breaks and we don’t? He’s probably just lazy. Right?

These are just some of the questions and comments we heard during the early years. Yohan’s classmates realized he had some physical differences, but from the outside, he looked more or less, just fine. Making matters worse, Yohan did not have the words to explain this somewhat complicated neuromuscular disease to other kids his age. We barely understood it ourselves.

After giving it some thought, and getting Yohan’s blessing, I decided to present CMT to the entire class in a very upbeat, interactive, and educational way. My goal was to have the students actually acquire some sense of what it might be like to have CMT. I wanted them to empathize with Yohan, understand him, and accept him—not feel sorry for him.

The day of the presentation arrived and Yohan was nervous. True to form, he had his hoodie on and sort of hid in the back of the classroom so he could pretend he did not know me and had never met me. In all honesty, Yohan liked the idea of this presentation because he was not being treated well by the other kids, but when the day arrived, so did a case of the nerves. How would his peers react? There was no way to know in advance.

Yohan is the one wearing a green hoodie! Found him!


 

 

 

 

 

At at the beginning, I spent several minutes explaining the meaning and origin of CMT, and then I involved the class in a discussion and some activities. We also talked about the peripheral nervous system and the differences between sensory and motor nerves.

 

CMT affects the nerves of the peripheral nervous system or all the nerves outside the brain and spinal cord.

 

Then I explained that kids with CMT may have problems with tasks requiring fine motor skills. To demonstrate how difficult it can be for someone like Yohan to perform everyday activities, I gave each student a button-down shirt and a pair of socks. I had them put a sock on each hand, and then I asked them to button their shirts up as fast as possible. I heard, “This is hard,” “I can’t do this,” and even, “I give up!” I also picked up on a couple of  “This sucks” and …well, you get the point. The good news is that this exercise led to a wonderfully animated discussion about how frustrating and challenging the simple tasks of writing, tying shoelaces, and buttoning shirts can be for people with CMT.

Next, I brought in a model of a 10-foot-long myelin sheath with nerves branching out at each end. I made this with a black hose, through which I threaded many different-colored wires. I showed how the myelin sheath protects the nerves and, in turn, helps them send impulses to and from the brain. Delicately avoiding negative terms like “damaged” or “abnormal,” I explained that the myelin sheath in people with CMT is “thinner” and thus less apt to protect and conduct as rapidly or as efficiently as the myelin sheath of someone who does not have a neuromuscular disease.

To illustrate how the loss of myelin affects nerves, I chose three volunteers and asked them to first run the length of the sheath four times and then hop the same distance. They all agreed that hopping was much harder and time-consuming. This activity ultimately gave them insight into why muscles in CMT get tired quickly and just how much more energy a person with CMT must expend to perform the same tasks as everyone else.

Finally, I divided the class into groups of four or five students. Each group (except my son’s group) was given a full bottle of glue. His group also received a glue bottle, but, they didn’t know it was filled with water. I declared that the first group to squeeze out all the glue from the bottle would be the winner. On “Go,” they all squeezed furiously, wanting to win the bags of candy I held out as the prize.

Of course, the group with water in their bottle won very quickly. Cries of unfairness and injustice rang loudly throughout the room, especially when I handed out the bags of candy to only five members of a class of 21. When one child blurted out, “Oh… I get it, in this exercise, we are the ones with CMT and even though we tried really hard to complete the task we could not. The non-CMT group won the prize.” The others reflected on what was just said and I saw light bulbs illuminating the entire room!

This exercise produced much empathy and insight, which in turn provided a deeper and more profound understanding of CMT. Finally, I reminded the class that everyone has some condition or obstacle to overcome, whether it’s wearing glasses or braces or hearing aids. I left them with the following thought: if we all tried to be open to the differences of others and learn to understand and accept them without judgment, this would be a much better, more tolerant world!

From that day on, the teasing stopped, and Yohan became just another kid at school. Yeah, he might wear braces on his legs, trip and fall a lot and feel too exhausted to run around, but the questions were answered and the mystery was solved. Education is a wonderful thing.

 To see the entire presentation, please click on the following link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IdL3GHTlAgA
And please forgive my straggly appearance in the video. I thought I looked fine at the time….great even, but hair and clothing styles were different then. What was stylish then is definitely not cool today. And I hate watching myself in a video – dramatic much? Oh well. it is what it is. The message is the most important aspect of this whole activity. Enjoy.
One of the kids trying on an AFO

4 thoughts on “Embracing Differences: Everyone Has Something!

  1. Elizabeth, thank you for sharing this message about Yohan and CMT. I myself have a clearer understanding of CMT because of your presentation! Well done and I think that anyone with CMT is fortunate they have you in their corner. ❤️

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    1. Thanks so much for the feedback and thanks for reading/watching. CMT is hard to explain, so I’m really glad you understand it better. And I feel grateful you’ve always supported us in the journey. Xoxo

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