9 Surefire Ways to Feel More Positive

Everyone gets down from time to time. When I am not in a good place, I try to think about something positive and uplifting. Sometimes, well okay, often,  my mind brings me to unusual places, which make me laugh. Let me share 9 of my thoughts with you. Do any resonate?

You are a miracle.
  • You are all winners. I often find myself saying, ” I never win anything.” Then, I thought about this statistic: According to scientists, it is estimated that we have a 1 in 400 trillion chance of being born. 1 in 400,000,000,000! So, let’s say that there are currently about 7.5 billion people living on the earth right now.  Let’s create  553 planet earths, each with 7.5 billion people.  Now, you have to randomly choose just 1 person from any of the 553 planets.  That person is you! That’s how incredibly lucky you are to be alive today. Crazy, right? We are all winners in the lottery of life.


  • Freedom rocks. There is so much beauty in the world and most of us have the ability to enjoy the air, sky, animals, friends, etc. I often think of those in prison, in solitary confinement or people who live in countries where freedom is severely restricted. Take a minute to take in and appreciate the tiniest of detail in your surroundings. Then celebrate your freedom by dancing, throwing your arms up, kissing a loved one. Why? Because you can.

    Appreciate the beauty all around you.


  • Positivity. The way you interpret life events will definitely influence your feelings because thoughts create emotion. As master of your thoughts, you can put a positive spin on whatever happens to you, which will improve how you feel on a regular basis. And, if you end up in a slump, remember that you will not ALWAYS be in that same exact frame of mind. Laughter, joy, and happiness are not far away because feelings are temporary and fleeting. The way you feel will inevitably change.


  • I’m a modern girl. I am so happy I live in modern times, and not in the Middle Ages. Life does not look so fun back then. Serfs under the feudal system worked long and hard, doing back-breaking work all day long.  Women spent their days spinning wool and making clothes (seriously, can you see me successfully making clothes on a spindle all day? They’d throw me to the pigs). Only  50% of the people lived until 35, which is the average life expectancy of the time. There was no electricity and families lived in one room huts where 1/3 of the space was fenced off for the animals. The hearth in the middle of the room gave off heat, but the air was always smoke-filled. You get the idea.

    Daily life in the Middle Ages


  • Cave Girl? No thanks! I’m also glad I was not born a cave girl. With my horrible vision, I would have been TOAST very early on. By the time I was in 2nd grade, my teacher figured out I was very nearsighted. Today, I am considered legally blind without correction. So when I play out my pre-historic times life, I get this scenario, “That pile of leaves looks fun! One, two, three-JUMP!” Then, in midair, I freeze, “Oh snap! The pile of leaves just made a growling noise that sounds just like a sabretooth cat. Good-bye cruel world.”
Sabertooth Cat
  • The internet is amazing! Information 24/7 at your fingertips. And Skype helps connect to people far away, in the US and way beyond. Today, it’s so much easier to research a topic from home instead of going to the library, using the Dewey Decimal system to find a book on a topic of interest.Now, video call a friend or a relative….just make sure you are wearing clothes to be seen in, at least from the waist up!


  • This photo makes me nostalgic, but I prefer the internet any day!
  • Changing your first name is totally legal. Seriously, there are some parents who did not think straight when naming their child. Here are a few very unfortunate names I’ve found while browsing the awesome internet:
  • Jack Goff
  • Dick Smalley
  • Ben Dover
  • Donald Duck
  • Phat Ho
  • Preserved Fish (Thanks, Shirley!)






And, there are many, many more horrible names out there. Many of these names are found on prison warrants for arrest.  Well, what did you think would happen when giving your kids such embarrassing monikers?

  • Evolution is Cool For example, giants do not exist. Bare with me on this one. I always wonder how many ants I’ve unknowingly killed. To an ant, I am a huge monster, with big, murderous feet. I am so thankful I am not a tiny ant, and even more grateful that giants exist only in folklore. Can you imagine if we had to be worried about being crushed by giants roaming the earth? That would totally suck.  And on that same note, I must confess that I am happy the dinosaurs are extinct. I just could not deal with knowing that at any time, I might come across an enormously fast lizard with little tiny hands reaching out to devour me for lunch.

    Giants are fake.
  • CMT Sucks!  (Joyce Steinkamp, thanks for the lollipop idea!)CMT stands for Charcot-Marie-Tooth disease-a progressive disease of he the peripheral nerves. Know if you have CMT, there is much more information, research, progress and awareness of this very common, but rare disease than ever before in history. And our researchers are working day and night to provide treatments to stop CMT. Bottom line – hope is real. But, believing without acting will not get us over the goal line.  So, if you really want to feel good about yourself, get involved in a charitable cause like the CMTA by volunteering, donating, publicizing, joining igive.com or amazonsmile.com (choose CMTA as your charity of choice). Be part of the solution – cmtausa.org

Jeana Sweeney, this image is for you. xoxo







7 thoughts on “9 Surefire Ways to Feel More Positive

  1. George Ouellette January 13, 2018 / 6:06 PM

    Love your perspective Elizabeth ❤️


    • bestfootforwardweb January 13, 2018 / 8:50 PM

      Thanks George!! And I am so grateful you take the time to read my blog. Best brother ever!


  2. Vicki Pollyea January 13, 2018 / 9:32 PM

    What a special way to look at our amazing world. ThanksElizabeth! Perspective is everything in life. I do believe our attitude is the only thing we have real control over. That and whom our friends are. So thankful to have friends such as Elizabeth, Jeana, and Joyce to help shape my view of the world.. and to share this CMT journey with! LOVE you ladies!!


  3. Kathleen January 14, 2018 / 7:56 PM

    I’ve never considered my existence as a miracle but I truly believe my son Eric is a miracle. The 5th pregnancy for a live birth. Thank you God for this gift.


  4. Gary January 16, 2018 / 5:44 PM

    Excellent article! Thanks!
    One minor editing note: I believe that the number 400,000,000,000 = 400 billion
    But still incredible odds!


  5. Marilyn Cameron January 28, 2018 / 12:16 AM

    Thank you for those thoughts. I try to think positive thoughts every day starting when I get up. I “thank God for helping me today and yesterday and all the days I have needed help.” I want to stay upright as long as I can. That means I have to go out and drive to shopping centers or meetings where I have to walk to get into buildings. I also like to share hugs with people who look like they could use a hug. My mother used a scooter and said”when you are sitting down no one hugs you. If you are standing up they give you a hug. I always ask a person in a wheelchair or a scooter “have you been hugged today? Would you like a hug? They always say yes. I don’t want to invade anyones space so always ask. I am married to a hugger so I get hugs and “can give them away”. Of course I get a hug i back from them and that makes me feel good too.


    • bestfootforwardweb January 28, 2018 / 12:42 AM

      Marilyn, thanks for commenting. I’m a hugger too… and like you, I realize not everyone is comfortable with physical contact. A hi-five is not the same, but a on option for those who don’t want/like hugs. Keep spreading love and acceptance.. and thanks for sharing!


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